11.07.2011

Some motivation for your soul ...



Is there something you must do but you don’t feel like doing it? The best way to feel like doing something is to go ahead and get started on it.

Sure, you may not feel like it, but don’t let that stop you. In fact, you can choose to let that prompt you to get started.

You don’t have to make your feelings into an excuse. You can feel however you wish to feel.

So choose the feeling that will move your life positively forward. Choose the feeling that will get you going.

There may indeed be many factors working against you. Don’t add to that list by working against yourself.

Go ahead, feel like it, and get busy working on it. Soon, you’ll be genuinely feeling very glad you did.

— Ralph Marston

Have a great day guys ! xoxo

11.06.2011

Breast Cancer Awareness

October was breast cancer awareness month. So I bought this shirt from Old Navy to show my support ! I was suppose to go to central park for the walk, but got there a bit too late for all that. Lol. Either way , Jace and I had a great time walking around the park & soaking in the sun ! =)

Here is a picture of the shirt I wore :



City & Colour !!

I love his voice. I am officially a fan =) He will be performing on December 7th at Terminal 5 , out here in NYC. I might just go see him ! Def something different from the regular hip hop music I listen to daily !





The meaning behind the ink ....

After I had Jace, I decided on getting my first tattoo. I choose to get "Fearless" across my arm, close to my wrist. I loved it. But not many people understand it. It has so much meaning to me. I am not saying I am not scared of anything....but this tattoo reminds me daily of all the struggles I have gone through.. & im still here. Like everyone else, everything I have gone through has made me stronger & mature. I let love in, when I was scared of falling in love again. I chose to keep my son, though I knew I wasn't fully ready for a child...& through all the pregnancy complications & hard times... I was blessed with a healthy baby. I believe my son made me even more fearless. Lately I catch myself saying " If I was able to survive natural labor, I can do this " LOL. It was a tough tough thing to go through ....& I did it. I was so proud of myself after that....and now even more. I am a mother, a college student, & I work as an educator. So much on my plate, yet I manage to excel at all areas of my life. Im able to show everyone who doubted me that I can do it & I am doing it very well. There are other things I have gone through in my life that I choose to keep private, but trust me ... I have been through a lot of pain & struggle...but I will never act like a victim, because with God in my life I have overcame it all... & I will always be a firm believer that with GOD by my side - I am FEARLESS.


Halloween 2011

Hope everyone had a great halloween. I sure did. It was Jace's first halloween & he was a dinosaur, the cutest dino if you ask me =) ! lol. the boyfriend & I went to a party the day before halloween & dressed up in our trophy wife & sugar daddy costumes..it was cute & fun ! Even though I was super hot under that blonde wig. LOL. On halloween I had work, but after work we took Jace trick or treating with his little cousin. Im very happy he had fun with it...though he is too young to know what he was doing..he was laughing with his costume on & smiling at everyone ! lol.



10.14.2011

four meses

Jace is officially 4 months. I cant believe how fast time is going. He is a joy to have, the happiest baby ever. He laughs & smiles all the time. I really couldn't have asked for a better son ! He is now sleeping through the night , most of the time. He has started teething already so at times he can be a little crabby patty, but its normal. I can only imagine how terrible it may to teeth.

He has definitely captured my heart. Every single piece of it =) !!


October is anti bullying awareness month !

October is known for so much , & now it has been made the month for anti bullying awareness. I think its such a great idea to spread the word about bullying. I feel it has gotten worse and worse as the years go by, and it is affecting so many lives, that it should not be taken lightly any longer. I don't think people understand how deep their words can cut people. Working with kids I see a lot of bullying, unfortunately...and I just think about my son & what if its still this bad when he starts school. I don't want him to be on either side of it , the bully, nor the one being bullied. Its a very sad thing to see, because the bullies either don't see anything wrong with what they are doing , or they feel it will make them popular , or much more liked. I think its great to get the word out about it at a young age. I work with kindergarten kids, & I was so happy to teach them the importance of this. The fact that they some what understood what I was saying, & they were able to define a bully at the end of the day - made me feel 100 times better about the topic. I think if you keep on explaining it to them , they will see how important it is, and really take it in. A little goes a long way, and you just never know if your saving a life by doing so.


Here is a picture of me on the day of the event at my job. We all decided to promote awareness by wearing blue.



Here is also a cool bracelet I found on ebay. It read " Say no to Bullying " ! Love it.
Get yours on ebay - seller name is : Tanitog , I also got my Breast cancer awareness ones from this seller.

10.13.2011

Manhattan Luxury Cakes

I know I have a lottt of blog posting to catch up on -_- ! Ive been a full time mommy, educator & college student....a lot on my plate & so little time.

But anyways - Here is a post I wanted to do about my boyfriends cousin, Natasha. She has her own baking business, which she runs from her own home. Just recently she baked cake pops for my jobs halloween bake sale, & they sold in just a couple minutes. Not only were they tasty, but amazingly beautiful to look at.

If you or someone you know is having a birthday party, baby shower, wedding, baptism, etc & your in the NYC area - I suggest you check out --

http://manhattanluxurycakes.com

or find her on facebook & like it -- manhattan luxury cakes

Here are the cakepops she made me of ghosts,pumpkins,witches, & frankenstiens =)

9.23.2011

Lately Faves

1.So Sexy VS Conditioner&Shampoo



2. Herbal Essence Longterm Relationship Conditioner&Shampoo


3. Keratin Hair Conditioner by mirta de perales


4.Soft Soap Body Butter Cocunut Scrub


5. Twilight Woods Body Spray && VS Noir Tease Body mist

9.18.2011

my pain in the butt !

Today is my brother Nene's birthday. As many of you that have been following my blog for a while, know that my brother was born with Cerebral Palsy, and its been a tough journey for us all. He has grown up right before my eyes & I am proud to say I was part of his growth. I gave my teenage days up to stay at home most days to care for him , help him with hw, get him ready for school in the Am's, and just being his older sister. Of course there were & STILL are many times I wanna just knock him upside the head , LOL. But I love him like I have loved no other man ......its really unconditional love. I love my other baby brother , but it does NOT compare to show I love Nene. Im pretty sure it is because I sacrificed for him , & I am always giving him my 150 percent. I love you Nene more than ever. You have changed my life in sooo many ways - but for the better. You made me a strong & loving, forgiving individual. I dont think I would be such a great mother if it were not for you in my life. I know I may be tough on you sometimes, but it is all because I want nothing but the best for you. Keep your head up && remember all the potential you have , if you just put your mind to it ! - xoxo , Your HunnyBuns !