I haven't posted in a while ; so sorry guys for that. But QUESTION : Why do men find it hard to tell the truth? WHY must they lie , even about the smallest things. Like what harm is it going to be to tell the truth? So your not going to get ass; and you'll probably get dumped ...LOL , but why not just be a man about things? I got to thinking about a relationship I was in last summer. This guy was a sweetheart; he did just about anything I would want a boyfriend to do. Brang me food late at night; took me to work; introduced me to his family; woke me up every morning with a " good morning babe; have a nice day today" ; spent hours on the phone with me when he was not able to see me ..heck he did it all. I felt like the most special girl in the world & I thought my boyfriend was the SHIT. Till one night --- I receive a message from some chick on myspace saying " Why did you change my boyfriends myspace ; he told me you hacked on to his page and put yourself on his top and uploaded old pictures of you and him...stop being a physco bitch and hop off my man " I was dumbfounded like ARE YOU SERIOUS? I gave him the benefit of the doubt thinking maybe shes fucking physcotic and wants to start shit so we can break up right? WRONG. I tell him what I received without spazzing out , to think hed explain it to me....but um he said he was too busy at the moment to talk about it. why was he busy? Because he was out with his boys at a lounge. REALLY? lol.. when all the while when we were together I would ask him " ohh; so that girl that commented you that's just your homegirl? " --yeah baby i dont even chill with her anymore though. BULLSHIT, it was his "girlfriend number two" . THEN I also come to find out he was still talking to his ex on the side; why ? because she got a message from the same chick too; but luckily she was more mature then physco bitch. HONESTLY, I dont understand why all the lies; and all the games. I used to mess with him and be like listen we can have an open relationship if you'd like cus I know its been a while since you been in one. JUST to see what he would say; but really that was his get out of jail free card RIGHT THERE. Lol. I dont know -- the funniest thing about the situation is he one day after a while requested me on facebook, and I realize he even lied to me about his last name? LMAO. I was dying of laughter when I seen that one. During our relationship he lied about living alone ( Which he knew Id find out when I met his parents? IDK) and he lied about his job ( Which I found out about when he asked me to PICK HIM UP from work one day? ) I really dont understand why men lie at all. It urks me that you can think your in this amazing relationship; and he truly cares and then you come to find out it was all a bullshit joke.
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