4.29.2009

liars suck.



I haven't posted in a while ; so sorry guys for that. But QUESTION : Why do men find it hard to tell the truth? WHY must they lie , even about the smallest things. Like what harm is it going to be to tell the truth? So your not going to get ass; and you'll probably get dumped ...LOL , but why not just be a man about things? I got to thinking about a relationship I was in last summer. This guy was a sweetheart; he did just about anything I would want a boyfriend to do. Brang me food late at night; took me to work; introduced me to his family; woke me up every morning with a " good morning babe; have a nice day today" ; spent hours on the phone with me when he was not able to see me ..heck he did it all. I felt like the most special girl in the world & I thought my boyfriend was the SHIT. Till one night --- I receive a message from some chick on myspace saying " Why did you change my boyfriends myspace ; he told me you hacked on to his page and put yourself on his top and uploaded old pictures of you and him...stop being a physco bitch and hop off my man " I was dumbfounded like ARE YOU SERIOUS? I gave him the benefit of the doubt thinking maybe shes fucking physcotic and wants to start shit so we can break up right? WRONG. I tell him what I received without spazzing out , to think hed explain it to me....but um he said he was too busy at the moment to talk about it. why was he busy? Because he was out with his boys at a lounge. REALLY? lol.. when all the while when we were together I would ask him " ohh; so that girl that commented you that's just your homegirl? " --yeah baby i dont even chill with her anymore though. BULLSHIT, it was his "girlfriend number two" . THEN I also come to find out he was still talking to his ex on the side; why ? because she got a message from the same chick too; but luckily she was more mature then physco bitch. HONESTLY, I dont understand why all the lies; and all the games. I used to mess with him and be like listen we can have an open relationship if you'd like cus I know its been a while since you been in one. JUST to see what he would say; but really that was his get out of jail free card RIGHT THERE. Lol. I dont know -- the funniest thing about the situation is he one day after a while requested me on facebook, and I realize he even lied to me about his last name? LMAO. I was dying of laughter when I seen that one. During our relationship he lied about living alone ( Which he knew Id find out when I met his parents? IDK) and he lied about his job ( Which I found out about when he asked me to PICK HIM UP from work one day? ) I really dont understand why men lie at all. It urks me that you can think your in this amazing relationship; and he truly cares and then you come to find out it was all a bullshit joke.



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Keys. said...

man every girl must have experience some type of lying jackass.. they seem to ALWAYS have some second life in the backgroudn.. and lying is the worst takes to much time IMO. cause you lie once then you gotta lie about lying then lie about lying about lying lol.. is it THAT worth it? man in the end everything comes to light and they fucked worse then they would have if they were just honest!

gor(jess). said...

lmao thats true. they got mad time on there hands , i cant do it even for a damn day.

Unbreakable said...

lol @ keys thats funny.well i cant defend man or woman both sexes lie at times for the strangest reason, in the strangest situation, this guy was very deceitful,but just so you know their are still good guys in this world.

gor(jess). said...

lol - thanks unbreakable ... yeah i do agree && am sure that there are good guys out there. just hard to find ! lol.

Stephie J said...

Wow. Men are so fucked!!

I was in a similar situation. Jermaine was dating me for 6 months and some other biotch for 3 years!! He laughed at me when I cried when he broke my heart. what an ass. Now he asks me if he'll ever see me again? KEEP DREAMING DICK!!!!

♥Nikki D.City Star♥ said...

That sounds like one of my old relationships!, lol Better yet that sounds like almost every guy i've been with at one point or another! Sad but true. "Men Lie, Women Cry, why this happens, we'll never know why."

gor(jess). said...

stephie -- hell yeah .. they got the balls to come out the blue with the whole i miss you , lets hang out again ...

umm ... do you not remember playing the SHIT out of me? lolll

nikki -- lol gotta deal with the assholes in order to really appreciate the one right ? =)

BarbieLuvsMac said...

omfg!!! thats horrible!! i hate guysss but i got a better story;; maybe idk lol, but i got back with my ex and i let him borrow my sidekick for the weekend and hes like oh theres a party by my house come over and i was like nah its ok. wen i got the fone back it turned off and turned back on by itself long story short text appeared to his ex thing saying i miss yu lets kick it cum over theres a party by my house i wanna see yu....all on my own fone! lmao

gor(jess). said...

wowww ; lol wat a douchebaggg.
ugh; boysss.

*Nehs* said...

thank for the visit gor(jess) :)

Ahleessa said...

Thank you for visiting my blog, as well as, following! :) I love how honest you are about guys... hehe~ It was fun reading it! :)

gor(jess). said...

aww thankyou guys for coming to my blog also :) i love all my followers ; you guys give great feedback <3

xxxx said...

myspace is the devil...lol

gor(jess). said...

it DEFF is ... lol, if it werent for myspaceeee !

Milz said...

Dang that dude was a complete liar. But I dont know why guys lie, its like in their nature to do that.

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Karen said...

damn that is SUM shit; i had a similar problem like yours in my past. i guess guys lie to us to "impress" us but w.e the best thing to do is keep your head up & take it as a lesson learned.

it only makes us girls stronger if you think bout it

supreme. said...

lmfao @ the cartoon, though.

bnalaniw11 said...

i can honestLy 100 percent reLate to that.