Considering Valentines Day was yesterday. I will tell my love story with my Boyfriend. Before I show any pictures & details of our great vday/night ! :)
So - we met a while back; but did not get the chance to really communicate or speak because of drama occuring around us. Plus I was in my fuck guys mood ; so when he came to ask me if I wanted a patron shot - I gave him that fuck off ; diva face =X opps.Lol. After that we met again at my best friends birthday dinner which she had at a mexican restuarant called El Cantinero. It was some what of a set up ; since they knew he was interested in me from before. I had no idea ; but once we got there it was very obvious. We sat downstairs & had dinner plus pina coladas ; and he basically didnt say much to me ; all I remember him saying is he was not a mushy person ... since his bestfriend was speaking about people that are very mushy when there in relationships. After that we went upstairs since the restuarant had a lounge/bar. We were hanging there & I thought he was cute so when he finally started conversation I was like AWW :) so he asked me my age ; I said 22 ...asked for his & he said 20.....thats when I was like DAMN ; on to the next one ! Lol. Nah JK ; I still held a convo with him but I admit I wasent as interested since he was so young to me. We both left at the same time to head out ; and it was very simple; a goodbye on the cheek & we both figured that was that. The next day I wokeup with him on my mind. I dont know why ...but I was like damn ; he was real cute. Also I guess just the fact that he seemed very confident ; and wasent all over me like a usual guy would be. Its the calm; cool & collective guys that catch my attention. So I decided to hit up his bestfriend & asked him .." why has your friend not asked for my BBM Pin? " Shortly after that ; I get a request & I see "Rob" on my BBM list. I felt like a go-hard cus I was like dude is probably not even interested ..but still I got the nerve to write to him " Hey new BBM friend ! " & from there we spoke through BBM from morning to night ; for a good 4 to 5 days. I started to like him more and more. Our first date was suppose to be to the movies ; but that didn't work out so we went to the park & spoke for hours - about our goals; dreams; struggles; interest & dislikes. I felt really at ease with him . I never met someone who was so interested in my life & just wanted to ask me questions. Then our 2nd date was to the movies ; we saw Public Enemies. It was real cute. We went on a couple more dates from there....started speaking on the phone almost every night. Then one night I was at a lounge around his way with my best friend & decided to extend the invitation. I was happy to see that he came ; even though he was with his boys & some other chicks before I had invited him. I was real nervous ; cus we were still friends & all of our dates were verrry much so on friendly bases. That night though ; I had a feeling it was going to be more; & I wanted it to become more. We had our first kiss that night & then the next day he asked me to be his girlfriend. It was very random because we both told each other in the beginning that we were not looking for anything serious; and that we had trust issues. But I guess thats the beauty of taking things slow & really getting to know a person ... they can change your mind of what you want. I remember our first date as a couple we decided to take eachother somewhere; but as a surprise. It was SO cute when he took me to Build-A-Bear ; because he remembered how I told him ( while we were just friends ) that I have always wanted to go there to make a bear with a boyfriend ; but I never had anyone that was romantic & lovey dovey like that . So for him to have remembered that was beautiful. Then I took him to the museum of sex ...real romantic of me ; I know. Lol. Now many months later ; many dates later we are still together & stronger than ever. It took me 7months to realize I am in love with this man. I like to take my time when it comes to EVERYTHING in a relationship. So I'm very happy we took our time saying our first " I love you's " and falling in love ; etc. This is the first time I am in a relationship where I can REALLY say he is my bestfriend ; and he knows me inside & out. He conquered every layer of me that all these other little boys failed to do. I dont hide anything from him ; I am myself completely. For the first time I have someone I'm not scared to speak my mind to; nor think it will turn into a argument or misunderstanding. He treats me just amazing ; even when I dont deserve it. We have fought like once; & it lasted like a hour. Im very grateful for the man I have in my life now. I can do anything & everything with him. Ive never had that in a relationship. A man that believes in me; pushes me to be all I can be. I swear I learn so much from him ; every single day. He is a true romantic ; a man that will do just about anything to put a smile on face. Things you think you only see in movies * SIGH. We have fun whether its dancing all night at a club or staying in watching movies. There is absolutely no drama with him; he lets me do & speak to whomever I want & vice versa without any fussing or fighting. Thats a real man. We both get along verrrry well with eachothers bestfriends & families. I swear its the relationship Ive been dreaming and praying for all my life. The fairytale relationship many people told me I would never find ; because it was "impossible" , but I did find it & I will never let it go for nothing.
Now onto Valentines day - As the amazing boyfriend he is ; he had remembered I said I wanted a " Baby Sister " for Lil Rob our Build-a-Bear he first got me. ( If you follow me on twitter; you know I have been saying I was going to get Lil Rob a Sister) So his present to me was the cutest pink bear he named Lil Jes. Lol. Shes adorable with her pink heart fluffy dress & party shoes. Plus he got me gorgeous pink flowers; and a box of chocolates. But the thing that really got to me ; that put the BIGGEST smile on my face was the card he got me.
My surprise to him was : I took him out to eat ; we went to El Cantinero - the place we first met almost a year ago from today :) He loved it. & it was just so funny being there and reminising. We ordered our food with some Pina coladas & had a blast. After we went upstairs to the bar/lounge like we did the very first time we met there & we had some drinks ; sat down ; & listened to some music. It was a great night. I couldnt have asked for better. After we went to his house ; relaxed & slept till he had to wakeup for work ! Hands down ; the best Valentines ever; my first REAL Valentines Day ♥
You did good baby ;) Next up on Friday is our Anniversary ! ♥
I'll leave you with some pictures :
OH && here are some things I made for him as a V-day Present; besides the little things I got him ! ♥